Let's start small... it is Christmastime 2020.
The days are definitely shorter and yes, darker - it seemed to happen over night, probably sometime back in October - September came and went and with it our summer was gone in one day.
But that is our country, right? That IS the UK.
The truth is whilst those days have closed in, the nights are now filled with bright lights and beautiful piney and fire burny smells, there is that chill in the air that reaches only the exposed bits: the end of your nose, the tips of your fingers, your heart?
The coldness in your heart is the worst... I know because I had it too. Yes, you have fun, you laugh, you joke, and you definitely do smile but never quite as much as the next person and you don't really know why that is because your life looks AMAZING to anybody else.
You have secretly asked yourself if you're depressed and dreaded the answer. You have wondered if maybe you're just not capable of that level of happiness. Annoyingly, you have been told numerous times that your expectations of life and others are way too high.
ARRRGGGGHHHHHH!!! The thing is YOU CAN'T AND WON'T ACCEPT THOSE ANSWERS !
You know you can be happy but how, what and who are you waiting for?
Now let me ask you something, are you even a little freaked out that I 100% know the answer to the above question because I really, truly, would bet any amount of money on it DO.
So let's go there again, let's time travel.
It is Christmas, it's been a weird year, a tough year but even before 2020 and the 'Rona hit you'd already been despondent. So we're in the most beautiful time of the year and you feel exactly the same way as you do right now. The same feeling as you open your eyes, the same pressures, the same frustrations, the same tolerances?
Tell me, does that feel good? Are you happy? Do you feel proud?
Sit there or a moment and let yourself FEEL it.
Let’s go further together, how about this time next year so Autumn 2021? The leaves are starting to turn orange and you feel exactly the same way, nothing has changed, you're still searching, still desperately hoping for SOMETHING to happen.
Okay, let's go EVEN further, it’s now five years ahead, it’s 2025, then 2030!
Nothing has changed.
You're still allowing everything to happen to you, life has slipped by, you're still receiving whatever is given, dealing with your lot, smiling yes, but never really in your heart. You are still all things to all people - except to YOU.
Sit here a moment. Just breathe. Breathe in deeply, hold the breath, breathe out slowly. Do that three more times before moving onward.
Now you're ready, let me ask you:
Is this what you want for your future?
Are you happy or proud that you kept doing what you’d always done, which meant you kept on getting what you‘d always got?
Think about it, if you could gift yourself anything, what would that be?
I already told you I'd been there, I KNOW how that feels and I know what my answer was when I was faced with my own potential future outcome. I know what I did for myself there and then! I gifted myself my future dream life.
And I did that by getting myself a kickass coach & I can say, hand on (no longer cold) heart, that because of that relationship I was brave, worthy and empowered to make so many life SAVING shifts that my present & future became something I could be ABSOLUTELY excited about & something I genuinely recognised from my childhood dreams!
SO again! Reality check time. Are you:
❌ Happy getting what you’ve always got?
❌ Feeling what you’ve always felt?
❌ Existing like you’ve always existed?
Leave this blog KNOWING this:
✔ YOU are the power
✔ YOU are the Universe
✔ YOU CAN have it all
You really do deserve that AMAZING life BUT sitting and hoping it will land in your lap is pointless.
MAKE A DECISION TO TAKE ACTION AND YOUR CONTROL BACK!
Book in your free strategy call & let’s get to work.